How can I access my reports without creating a hit?Go to your report page, make a bookmark of the page and use it next time to go directly to your reports. Or exclude your IP address on your My Account - Edit page.
Where are the numbers / digits on the button?A counter on your page is not part of the eXTReMe Tracking program. If you click the button the stats will appear. You may find (free) counters on many addresses on the web.
Can I choose any counter that I want and use it together with your stats package?